Wednesday Smiles
May. 21st, 2008 02:20 pm*cracks knuckles*
Friends, lurkers, and any random people who happen to see this, if you feel like it, tell me what made you smile this week. The reason is the same as it's always been here: I think it is far too easy to get caught up in the stresses, big and small, that we all experience. Being able to focus on one positive thing, however small, can give one a valuable sense of perspective.
For me, I've got a big ol' smile on because of fandom. I love it all -- the wank, the unnecessary characterization of people as "good fans" or "bad fans," the fic, the art, the meta, the het, the slash, the outrage, and the squee. The goddamn, motherfucking passion. Love it.
There's a place for all of us crazies, and its name is fandom. *pets*
Friends, lurkers, and any random people who happen to see this, if you feel like it, tell me what made you smile this week. The reason is the same as it's always been here: I think it is far too easy to get caught up in the stresses, big and small, that we all experience. Being able to focus on one positive thing, however small, can give one a valuable sense of perspective.
For me, I've got a big ol' smile on because of fandom. I love it all -- the wank, the unnecessary characterization of people as "good fans" or "bad fans," the fic, the art, the meta, the het, the slash, the outrage, and the squee. The goddamn, motherfucking passion. Love it.
There's a place for all of us crazies, and its name is fandom. *pets*
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Date: 2008-05-21 06:37 pm (UTC)And the fact I am off to pick my friend up at the airport for Indy, IKEA, and Sheryl.
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Date: 2008-05-21 09:35 pm (UTC)Then I'm thrilled. :)
And the fact I am off to pick my friend up at the airport for Indy, IKEA, and Sheryl.
So tipsy's out! Have fun, and try not to hurt yourself. *g* Sorry, I couldn't resist. I poke fun only because I manage to inflict minor damage upon myself with alarming frequency.
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Date: 2008-05-21 06:45 pm (UTC)no subject
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Date: 2008-05-21 06:51 pm (UTC)Yesterday I met my niece in the street with her stuffed Pocoyó in her hands. She told me he won't let her sleep because he's crying all night. Just trying to fool us because she never lets anyone sleep. ;)
May I say I loved the vegetable soup I just made and had for dinner? Simple pleasures after a hard work day make my day.
The fandom will save all of us.
Hugs.
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Date: 2008-05-21 07:06 pm (UTC)Perhaps it's the only good thing of "The Pain In The Heart".
And I'm going to go to the cinema on Friday. Indiana Jones!!! Yay! I'm so excite.
Besos
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Date: 2008-05-21 07:07 pm (UTC)...fandom is pretty passionate...gotta watch out for us crazies. ;)
Becca
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Date: 2008-05-21 07:16 pm (UTC)And 3-day weekend coming up... yeah, there's a smile too!
:)
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Date: 2008-05-21 07:32 pm (UTC)And 3-day weekend coming up... yeah, there's a smile too!
Oh yeah!
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Date: 2008-05-21 07:29 pm (UTC)Me: So who can name any of the plays Shakespeare wrote?
Year 8 student: Robin Hood?
I laughed later.
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Date: 2008-05-21 07:31 pm (UTC)Me: So who can name any of the plays Shakespeare wrote?
Year 8 student: Robin Hood?
I laughed later.
After you had an apoplectic fit, right? *g*
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Date: 2008-05-21 08:12 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-05-21 07:42 pm (UTC)This... This made me smile.
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Date: 2008-05-21 08:21 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-05-21 08:37 pm (UTC)1. now that the Bones finale is over, perhaps we can all relax, read/write some fanfic, and things will be cooler and better in the Fall.
2. I've posted all the final grades and ASAP I finish the annual report, I'll be finished for the academic year.
3. The husband and I have been having such fun discussions about the season's finale of Bones, and the B/B. It led me to reading The Husband a couple of pages of a book I've been reading by the Dalai Lama. (and isn't that neat?)
4. I thought to make a stew last night, and do not have to cook today. :-)
5. Fandom - the whole online variation from pissed off to happy, from X-Files to BtVS, AtS, Bones and BL.
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Date: 2008-05-21 08:52 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-05-21 09:29 pm (UTC)I hope I got it right this time! ARRRGH!
Date: 2008-05-21 10:13 pm (UTC)Let's see...
Wind Symphony rehearsal and all the fellowship I experience there made me smile.
The fact that I heard back within the hour from Trillian's customer service, even though I don't have the Pro version, made me smile.
The ongoing discussion in Simply David Only (http://groups.yahoo.com/group/simply-david-only) continues to make me smile.
The fact that I'm going to a fan media convention all weekend this long holiday weekend has had me smiling for the last 2 weeks!
Smile
Date: 2008-05-21 11:01 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-05-22 12:10 am (UTC)For me, I've got a big ol' smile on because of fandom
Ahh, yes! Fandom is awesomely fun! :)
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Date: 2008-05-22 12:16 am (UTC)screamed like we were little kids and had tons of fun, i love me some roller coasters :D
oh and i just bought a plane ticket to go visit my parents next month. so i'm getting my fill of family. i live alone and never see them, we are all across the country.
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Date: 2008-05-22 12:39 am (UTC)That definitely made me smile, because it is oh so true!
And, appropriately, my biggest smile of the day was fandom related.
Schoolz out for summer!
Date: 2008-05-22 12:44 am (UTC)It should be pretty obvious, but I just finished my last final of my junior year and I'm going to Ireland in two weeks. This makes me smile! =D
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Date: 2008-05-22 12:56 am (UTC)Also, the Stanley Cup Final starts this weekend. (finally!) GO PENS!
Did I mention I'm going to see The Kids in the Hall on Saturday?
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Date: 2008-05-22 01:24 am (UTC)I'm going to visit my sister this weekend.
I had a really good cardio session at the gym today.
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Date: 2008-05-22 01:48 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-05-22 02:30 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-05-22 09:42 am (UTC)I'm happy because I got to go to the library today and get tons of books.
I'm happy because I have music and friends and family. And Chicago pizza, which oughta be it's own food group.
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Date: 2008-05-22 06:20 pm (UTC)Hope your week was okay!
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Date: 2008-05-22 08:54 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-05-22 09:35 pm (UTC)no subject
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Date: 2008-05-23 02:44 am (UTC)I didn't know your grandfather was undergoing cancer. You must be so relieved that the surgery went smoothly. That is wonderful news.
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Date: 2008-05-23 12:19 pm (UTC)Neither did he till last weekend! We only found out that he had it on Friday so it's been a week full of family angst. He's not quite out of the woods just yet, but it's looking good so everyone's hugely relieved. :D
And I agree with your smile about the joys of fandom. The violence of the reaction to the finale made me laugh a few times. :)
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Date: 2008-05-23 12:32 pm (UTC)What a crazy week it must have been for you and yours. Life is like that -- you'll be plodding along and then BAM -- something totally unexpected and/or scary happens. Hang in there.
And I agree with your smile about the joys of fandom. The violence of the reaction to the finale made me laugh a few times. :)
Me too. :) I didn't expect them to tie up everything in the finale, but I did think there were some huge plot holes and characterization issues that required massive suspension of disbelief to accept. But I absolutely love how passionate people are about fictional realities. It speaks to the power of art and entertainment.
It really doesn't bother me that people have different opinions about this episode or the show in general. But it squicks me when people try to say that you're not a fan if you have any criticisms of the show. To me, that's like saying that you don't really love your family and friends if you disagree with any of their actions or are irritated by any of their quirks. Not that TV shows and family are the same thing, of course. It just seems utterly nonsensical to me that some people equate being a fan with blind, unquestioning adoration. I can love something and still see its faults.
Sorry for rambling. *g*
I hope your grandfather's recovery goes as smoothly as possible. *hugs*
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Date: 2008-05-23 01:16 pm (UTC)Blanx, I fillz dem. :)
I absolutely love how passionate people are about fictional realities. It speaks to the power of art and entertainment.
I completely agree. It wasn't till I found my way onto lj that I realised people would respond en masse with such strong feelings for a TV show. I mean, it's great, but a little weird when you step back and think about what these reactions are aimed at. :) (Not that I'll be changing my passionate responses to TV anytime in the near future.)
It just seems utterly nonsensical to me that some people equate being a fan with blind, unquestioning adoration.
Also totally agree with this. I can't count the number of times I've read about show-runners/actors/writers/whatever talking about keeping the fans happy, or seeing the fans' reaction to x, y, z, or discussing what the fans like or didn't like. It seems accepted (and logical) that fans' opinions can vary, so I don't understand why some people think that fans must love every aspect of the show. Discerning opinions = good thing. :)
Sorry for rambling. *g*
Ahem, ditto. *g* Thank you also for the hugs. *hugs back*
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Date: 2008-05-22 08:53 pm (UTC)There's a place for all of us crazies, and its name is fandom. *pets*
Thank fuck for fandom indeed!
*g*
The travesty that was the finale has pretty much wiped out any smile I might have had this week unfortunately :(
my big ole smile
Date: 2008-05-23 01:23 am (UTC)