I'll second what highvoltage11 and simplyndeep have said.

I've never liked the idea of them having a perfect relationship or a smooth time getting to that point. I'd like to think that there would be a bit of give and take on either side, but mostly I think it's Booth would would have to make the personal sacrifices to have Brennan, not the other way round. I don't think she would ever be able to give in fully to the conventional life of husband and wife, kids, the dog and the pitched fence. But Booth needs her enough to let go of those things.